SOCIAL MALADY
Rape is one of the social vices which keep elevating and germinating like a fertilized plant planted by the river bank.
There has been argumentation for and against this position as per which gender is guilty in this boat of atrocity. Some said the male gender is absolutely guilty while some said the female are the ones guilty, while others affirm that the two genders that are guilty .
However, I will not but bring a mirror before us now which would reflect us duly and reveal where this social insanity comes from. I will try to be objective enough in this article, which would cater for spacious avenue for you to cast your judgments.
Rape is a sin against divinity and humanity. The causes of this is like a two-edged sword or will I say it is like a dynamic numeric figure "9”. It is pregnant with variety of interpretations and views, which when turned around could give birth to different numbers [9 or 6], it all depends on which angle you have seen it. For the fact that you are right doesn’t mean I’m wrong. In this article, a problem will be set forth and I will bring some likely causes of RAPE and which when avoided could lead to eradication or drastic change on the list of RAPES in our society.
Furthermore, one of the cankerworms that has been cantankerously eating up our society is "RECKLESSNESS" and "CAREFREE" attitude. "Nothing seems important", we carry everything with levity jaw. Civilization is a good phenomenon and experience but it could be abused and which could efficaciously lead to poisonous venom [because it bites like serpent] that kills and mortalize. "Anything ABUSED can AMBUSH”. The way most ladies dress calls for social alarm, it calls for neurological examination. "Men are moved by what they see”, ladies also understand this. There is a proverbial axiom that says " the way you dress, the way you would be addressed or harassed”. With this impelling alacritical proverb, there is a ringing bell on the head of each word that surfaced therein. Does that suggest anything to you sister? Look at yourself; can you see what you are putting on? Do we need to para-nude ourselves or naked the sensitive parts of our body before we could be called " BIG”? They call us " SEXY”, is that not painting and posing a picture to us? I think civilization couldn’t have gotten to this extent visualized we are fortified enough before her arrival. Nevertheless, an axiom says "the bird does not change its feather because of the weather" is this true? But why have we removed our moral values away so dearly? I don’t think you really know the meaning of SEXY! Do you? If "NO” I won’t unfold it here but I will not be negligent to tell you to consult your lexicon. One of the malicious apparatus of civilization is the so called, " SEXY ATTIRE or FABRIC”. This erogenous dress has occupied the world market, which both old and young esteem so profoundly. Have you ever heard of this chant before? "kosarugbo 'n Ghana” not even in GHANA this time around, even in NIGERIA , our old women always want to cheat the cause of nature, they peroxide or bleach their body in order to look erotically sexy. Civilization is nursing our ladies like a baby, she gives them bad milk from her poor breast, insanity. It is in this century you see a lady going to market or public places with only " BRA” and short pussy and transparent trousers and micro garment. An unguarded individual "man”, seeing all these naturally built engine, [unlike sex Doll] chained together with a tattered fabric to cover them, would unfailingly " Brush the teeth and cane the goat”. That is, " DecenT dress senT a decenT assenT; the absence of decency painT a sainT as shiT” That is, the appearance determines the approach.
Have you ever been called SEXY? Indeed yes! What was your response to that? Impelling smile? Then, you have to check yourself! Have I begun to preach? Certainly not, I think I’m just trying to drag our consciousness to the home of contemplation with semantic approach. They say you are SEXY instead of " beautiful "doesn’t that pose an anglicanic buzzer that rings in your mind? Dressing sexy attracts sex and it also means to be sexualized. Meaning, you are marketing yourself and calling the attention of the customers [rapist] to critically look into your dish or shop. Is that not? Seductive dresses magnetize the mind of a man, not even the body at first. And the mind determines ones " Action, Reaction and which could eventually leads to interaction”. The way our ladies dress pose enormous concern to our truthful minds.
When something is crazy or when someone is crazy, do you know what this implies? Craziness graciously determines or defines the personality that attributes it. Putting on something which is befitting spells you well. ‘Aroistic’ is what we visage among youths of sound mind wearing insane cloth. When someone is insane you know it from the way he\she dresses. Purchasing cloth that look ‘WOW’ and still go to the extent of imitating a person who is out of his mind, is like praying for the spirit of madness that makes the mad man tore his cloth. Is any of your trousers named " crazy”? A crazy person wears something CRAZY! Because that is what defines him\her. Hocus pocus dressings is what we see in the jungle of ladies. Anyway, that is by the way.
I don’t think I have passed any judgment yet. Have I? Certainly not! I’m just arrowing out a cause and a sense of agency. Tha is, the action of a lady [wearing sexy, nude or naked/half or Para naked clothes] could lead to subsequent reaction from the man [process or struggle to furnish the lady] at the end of the day we could have the complete show " interaction” which is the complete episodic
Scene of RAPE.
I’m I side-rocketing? I think NO, notwithstanding, men also have the prominent roles they play in this game of cause and filthiness. Some men after proposing to a lady or a lady they admired whom they want to acquire and such a lady is not singing " OBBEY SONG” or " YEMI MY LOVER” song, instead of keeping pressing or quit, they take a very furtive action and which is rape. Even most of the time after being filled to the brim like, ‘AKEREGBE EMU’ ‘palm wine container’. Drunkard sometimes feels themselves with rape.
Therefore, it is necessary if not compulsory that an individual in the society checkmates his/her ACTION, REACTION AND INTERACTION with the opposing gender and try to strike a balance between sociality and morality [social civilization and moral values].
Live decently!
Dress decently
By Pastor Owolabi J. O. [God bless you]
[c]MAN OF INTEGRITY.
Owolabi Jeremah Juwon Is a moralist. He has veritably written a good number of poems and articles on viral issues such as the nitty gritty of moral values in our society. He is a pastor of Seventh day Adventist Church, Nigeria. He hails from Oke ila Orangun,Ifedayo Local government,Osun state Nigeria. He is currently a student of the foremost prestigious Africa University, OAU.
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